I'm heavily tattooed and pierced, with multiple pets, wasted loads of money on cars in my 20's and have nudes on the internet.
Aaaaand I have a professional degree and practice in good standing at a mid 6 figure desk job, and have a wife (who would qualify to most of these idiots as "high value", a presentable high earning professional with two degrees, not some tatted up hairstylist or barista) and I have good family relationships on both sides of that transaction... so... Proof by counterexample, the armchair psychiatrists in this thread need to chill, it's trite and boring to read.
Not wanting to be super vanilla and be the ideal mate candidate to some boring-ass Camry driving youth group pastor is valid, and it won't always ruin your life to be impulsive and be a little weird when you're young (lmao, don't get me wrong, it sure as fuck can, but not always). It won't ruin these girls to spend what they make on things they enjoy, or to do sex work as long as they don't want to be an elementary school teacher or a federal judge or something down the road.
Does she need to find what makes her happy? Probably. But if you want a boring girl who walks the straight and narrow, maybe tatted up internet sex workers are not the fit for you.