The whole "I'm not Trans" thing is odd. There are transsexuals and then there are transvestites. There are also cross dressers. I don't think they know what they are talking about. They literally go out in public to the gym etc dressed as female. This isn't like someone that just cosplays like males do. From what I've seen, they live their normal life dressed as female. IDK open cross dresser could be what they are.